10 Reasons You Don’t Need a Life Coach (so you think)
This blog post won’t be what you think. Because, when you get to the end it will be exactly what you need. Do I have your attention? Good
Let’s just jump right to it. A lot and I do mean a lot of people think, believe and really adhere to the reasoning that they do not need a life coach. Shocking!!!!! No really. We are a very independent society and most people don’t want you to know that they need HELP. But, let me tell you a little secret. We all need help sometimes.
There is nothing wrong with needing help.
Help is not a sign of weakness but a sign that you are missing something that you do need. There is no shame in that.
There are many types of coaches, counsellors, lay counsellors, pastors, etc that we all can get help from. If you are bad with money you may need a finance coach. Needing direction in your life after a death – a grief coach. How to have better health – a health coach. Help with life issues – a life coach. Get the picture.
I wanted to give you 10 reasons you can fall back on so that IF any or all 10 of these fits you and your life, you can then be free in your mind to conclude that you do not need a life coach.
So, read carefully. If you can answer yes to one or all these reason and go on with your life—and think it will be well…you don’t need me. But I doubt it. Here goes. (but I think you will)
Reasons:
#1 – Your life is perfect. You have the ideal life, you have got the best social media profile, and a high number of followers. You have many likes and you are good. Everyone likes you. Your image is safe. Your life “seems” perfect. If this is you and you are completely satisfied with your life – you do not need a life coach.
#2 – You know exactly what your next 5 years will look like. Yes, you heard me right. You have a 5 year plan and know that this is how you want it to look. You know what career you want. You are on track with that plan. You know if you want to get married or not. You know the type of man you want to marry. You know where you want to live. You have it mapped out in a journal and dream of this plan. If that is you – you do not need a life coach.
#3 – You suffer from no depression or anxiety, emotional pain, loneliness, rejection or low self esteem. You walk in total peace and joy. You sing with doves and with the angels every morning and you love everyone. No situations cause you anxiety. You handle everything that comes with the best attitude and god-like character. If this is you – you do not need a life coach.
#4 – You weigh the perfect weight and feel absolutely wonderful about your appearance and body size. You are not dieting or trying to change a thing. You love the way you look all around and you never compare yourself to anyone at anytime. You love your hair and eyes and not trying to always tweak or change something. Ever! If this is you – you do not need a life coach.
#5 – You never feel lonely, depressed or fear. You are not trying to fill your life with a counterfeit affection. Need I say more. If this is you – you do not need a life coach.
#6 – You are a motivation machine. You need no motivation for anything in your life. You are achieving things at a high level of success and need no accountability for anyone about anything at any time. Your mantra is “I got this”. If that is you – you do not need a life coach.
#7 – You have no-one to forgive for anything, at anytime, for any reason. Yep you heard me right. You have nothing in your heart against anyone. Everyone is your friend and you love them and they love you. If they make it to heaven with you, you wouldn’t be hiding around the next angel wings from that person. If this is you – you do not need a life coach.
#8 – You are consistent in your daily life to get things done, meet your goals and are achieving the success you want. You don’t waste time. You meet all your goals. You adapt. You are accountable and have integrity and excellence in all you do. You change the first time you decide to do something. You make the decision and you are good and don’t need help to change or walk it out. If this is you – you do not need a life coach.
#9 – You have a great community around you of friends, family, and co-workers. I mean the best. There is no-one in your circle that will let you down and not be there for you. You have a great and awesome family that will never leave you and be there for you at anytime, any place, any where. If this is you – you do not need a life coach.
#10 – You are living, walking and moving in your God given purpose and dream. You know “why” you are on the earth. You know your passions in life. You are clear and can state your purpose in one sentence and have a plan you are walking out to live that out for the glory of God. If this is you – you do not need a life coach.
Ok. So how did you score? Hopefully you see that you DO need a life coach. I’m sure that you do. How do I know this? Because nearly every person fails this questionnaire above and have issues that they need to work on if they were honest. That is why I am here. Sometimes, you only need a little help. Other times you need more. That is where I come in and that brings me to my huge announcement.
I have help. I have an answer.
I have a facebook group called Grace to Live Empowerment Coaching. Wooohoooo!!!!
I am doing life coaching and teaching in this group to women on every subject you could imagine just for you. I also have a teachable site called Grace to Live Empowerment School where I have courses on just about anything you want to help you better yourself and be empowered as a women. Right now there is one course there called Grace to Live Empowerment Program with another to be launched very soon. Here is the link: Grace to Live Empowerment Program
I would love for you to join. This is a great group that you will want to join to learn how to overcome all 10 things above and more.
Life is hard. Let’s face it we all need support at some time or another. This is the place to get it. I will doing lots of teachings on things that we as women struggle with. Things that bring us a lot of pain and emotional gstress. It will be a group that will heal, help and honor you as a woman. I will also have a paid membership site that will teach even more in-depth material and coaching that will start in the next 6 weeks.
So here is the link: Grace to Live Empowerment Coaching Facebook Group
Click the link if you are on facebook and join. The school is a great place of healing and inspiration. I will be having courses on: How to Study the Bible for beginners, Study in Galatians, Forgiveness, Women and our Friendships, Psalms, Proverbs, The Anointing, Humility, Spiritual Wilderness and How to Survive It, Lies that Keep Us From Change & more.
Life coaching is a wonderful addition of a discipline to add to your life.
Get my coaching workbook here called Grace to Live Coaching Program on Amazon and work through it. Its one of the courses I will be teaching also. Again, join the group and begin to heal.
Bless you richly.
